Relationships

[kainoa29]

how'd that turn out...?

he was cool with it! he doesn't care at all which was weird to me! he just reassured to me that he was straight and he was not changing sides any time soon. hes so sweet... he Still is my Best friend and im good with that.

[Marbus]

Anyway, I'd say give him time. Talk with him. Talk about all sorts of stuff, and ask if he wants to hang out/ go out. It's always better to do these things face to face.

Well, as it turns out the advice (which was still good and helpful, thank you) wasn't needed since he messaged me a couple of hours after I posted and apologized for his lack of being around and stuff and everything seems to have gotten better! But I will still kepe what you said in mind because it makes sense

[arinot]

oh hai guys who "can't get girls."
So I was stumblin and I got something you all may like... think I put this in another thread earlier today... meh...
http://www.thereason.cc/

Most of it, at least as I think, is self-explanatory.
eg: go to party, go to center of group of girls, jump around, ask if someone wants to dance. if turned down, pshhawww... as my super nerd friends say, if you keep rolling, you WILL GET A 20...

I still don't get it, but it sounds appropriate

[Anonymous G]

Jeeze that's a long video to tell us the obvious

[arinot]

IT IS THE OBVIOUS
Just that most people seem to NOT UNDERSTAND THIS

hmm... how to put it...

you don't go AFTER the girl
You go AFTER her ATTENTION.

(also it's entertaining )

[Hollow Lover]

Okay, I'll try to make this as simple and painless as possible:

There's a guy I've known for 3 years now, and I've been crushng on him since last year. I asked him to junior prom back in December, but that went down in flames. However, a few of my friends are tryng to put in some good word to him for me. So far, nothing new has happened between us yet. What's odd, though, is that a slight few people are asking me if me and the guy are dating. I wanna ask him myself if we can hang out together sometime, but I never seem to work up enough...*ahem*..."courage" to do so.

WHAT DO I DO?????

[Mr Meatballs]

Okay, I'll try to make this as simple and painless as possible:

There's a guy I've known for 3 years now, and I've been crushng on him since last year. I asked him to junior prom back in December, but that went down in flames. However, a few of my friends are tryng to put in some good word to him for me. So far, nothing new has happened between us yet. What's odd, though, is that a slight few people are asking me if me and the guy are dating. I wanna ask him myself if we can hang out together sometime, but I never seem to work up enough...*ahem*..."courage" to do so.

WHAT DO I DO?????

Honey we need to talk. You are an otaku who frequents a furry forum. the only thing you CAN do is try again.

[Anonymous G]

Bah, Hollow Lover, what's your gender?

[Mr Meatballs]

Bah, Hollow Lover, what's your gender?

Female.

[Anonymous G]

Oh, makes advice easy then. Ask the dude out, if you have somewhat of a semblance of a good reputation with him, he'll probably give it a whirl. Unless of course he's the picky type.

[arinot]

^ I concur
If you're a chick, and decent looking, you're fine.
and asking a guy out will have higher chances of good turnout

if courage is an issue, psyche yourself up a bit. Tell yourself you're awesome. If you think you're awesome and that things will go well, you will go in with a confident attitude, which is also good.

unless it surpasses the douche threshold, but it's hard to do that.

[Hollow Lover]

Alright...I think I'm gonna do that. Thanks guys! I'll give you details later on then, 'cause you're all being very helpful.

[McSkinny]

oh hai guys who "can't get girls."
So I was stumblin and I got something you all may like... think I put this in another thread earlier today... meh...
http://www.thereason.cc/

Most of it, at least as I think, is self-explanatory.
eg: go to party, go to center of group of girls, jump around, ask if someone wants to dance. if turned down, pshhawww... as my super nerd friends say, if you keep rolling, you WILL GET A 20...

I still don't get it, but it sounds appropriate

NSFW tags much?

[arinot]

hey, it's probably in the R section... and even then not much.
If you've watched 40 yearold virgin, then you can watch that

[Hollow Lover]

Okay, I promised you guys an update, and - even though it's not the best of news - here it is:

I asked the guy if we could go to the movies on Sunday, but he said no 'cause it's Mother's Day. He asked if we could go Saturday, but I told him I couldn't go that day 'cause my sister's gotta do some "commemoration" thing or other at our church.

Now we have to wait and see if we can hang out next weekend.